Reading stories from other people is one of the best ways to know that whatever you’re going through, you’re not alone.
CLAPA has collected together dozens of stories from parents of children with a cleft which cover everything from diagnosis to coping with surgery and watching their children grow up.
Young People with a Cleft
We currently don’t have many stories from young people with a cleft, but we’re always looking for more! You can read the ones we have using the link below, or scroll down to find out how you can submit your own.
Adults with a Cleft
Our stories from adults range from those not yet 20 years old to those into their 80s, and their experiences couldn’t be more varied! If you’d like to share your experiences with the rest of the CLAPA Community, please do submit your story using the form below.
Submit Your Story
A good case study isn’t just about describing what happened, it’s about taking the reader on a journey with you, helping them to understand how you felt at each moment and recognising the similarities in your shared experiences. It can also be a way of framing your difficult experiences in a positive way, perhaps by talking about how much you learnt or how things have improved since that time.
Put yourself in the shoes of the person who might be reading your story. Perhaps they’ve just had a diagnosis and just want to know everything will be okay. Perhaps they’re anxiously waiting for a surgery date and want to know how other parents managed to get through it all in one piece. Maybe they’re all grown up and are wondering if other people with a cleft ever feel like they do.
Whatever the reason, remember that you yourself have come a long way since your first experience with cleft, and that even if you think your experiences are unremarkable, you still have a unique story to tell that might inspire someone.